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Heather Pelz's avatar

When my SAR team is called to an incident my favorite part isn't the part that happens at the scene, it's in the drive to it. We're all coming in from different directions, different parts of the city, coming from work or from school, from a difficult day or from a celebration. As we get closer to converging on site I start to notice the people in the other cars, their florescent yellow jackets, the SAR sticker on the back window, and I feel so much pride and also comfort that I'm part of this important thing that we're doing. None of us knows what we’re heading into, we don’t have that information until we get there, and still we show up. Even then the details are limited. The meaning comes from what we continue to practice – repeatedly showing up, together. That’s the story I follow.

Sylvan Fern's avatar

As we surrender to the reality that we are not the center of the universe, a new freedom begins to open—a wider landscape of awareness. In that space, I find the freedom to witness all forms of life as part of the family I belong to.

That sense of belonging matters. It means I’m no longer tasked with managing, controlling, or granting permission to life. Even the simplest bodily acts—eating, sleeping, defecating—quietly humble the illusion of our inflated, god-like entitlement.

The world is always speaking in poetry. But it takes humility to step down from our high perch of self-protected certainty to actually hear it—to become a participant rather than a ruler, a team member in the mystery of not knowing.

Deep time whispers this truth relentlessly. It challenges the self-centered paradigms and power structures embedded in religion, politics, and even science. Through vulnerability and a more awakened heart, we begin to sense that we are not just a brain carried around in a body—but something far more vast, something that cannot be contained so easily.

We didn’t choose to be born… but what if, playfully, we did choose to be here now?

That question opens everything. It expands our sense of calling—why we are here, in this moment, in this body. Responsibility begins to feel less like a burden and more like an unfolding adventure.

In stepping out of the old patterns—guilt, shame, constriction, the retreat into smallness—we recover something essential. A deeper belonging. A quiet courage.

To know the unknowing.

And to be at peace within it.

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